The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in. – Morrie Schwartz
I know you are going to look down on yourself and allow your insecurity to stop you from getting what you deserves. I know you will think about the failure of your past relationship and allow that to wear you down. But I want you to know that he left you, not because you were not good enough for him, but because he was not good enough for you.
You can pick up a cup and cry into it, then measure if your tears can quench the pains. You can worry about it all day, to understand if worry will actually heal your broken pieces.
Love has never been about just meeting someone but it’s about meeting, knowing, understanding and having the right person.
You are supposed to meet a stranger on the road, social media or anywhere, get to know him or her, then start an insecure journey of a relationship together. But dear, there is no perfect human being, there is no perfect relationship, there is no secure relationship, even when we think marriage should provide some sense of relationship security, divorce sets in.
I don’t know whether you have been promised heaven on earth only to discover that the person is the much talk about hell. I don’t if you have meet someone with all the feature you desire, only to discover that they are 100% empty regarding character and attitude.
Love is not a promise, it’s a process that need special care and attention.
Love is much more than just a word, it’s a story of kindness and forgiveness.
Don’t look for love because of loneliness or to cure your desire for sex,
Don’t look for love, because you have seen or heard people talking about it.
Don’t look for love because of family or societal pressure.
Start by loving yourself and being a better person, be open and love will find you